I didn't want to post here because Kate's message needs to be read. My thoughts and love are with her.
I just posted links to a few photo albums of Matt here: http://bikegrrrl.blogspot.com/p/song-for-matt.html
It has helped me to write about him, to laugh, to cry, and to talk to him still. And so I post this here in the hopes that it will help all of you who loved him as well.